Oh man, this was a really tough read. Beth Hetland’s debut graphic novel is about the negative effects of social media, and how trying to “keep up” with societal expectations can prove to be our undoing.
Carolann wants the kind of perfect life that she sees on Instagram. With no immediate romantic prospects, she engineers a relationship with a coworker, which quickly turns into marriage (complete with perfect wedding day Instagram pictures). But when the couple unfortunately lose their baby, Carolann’s relationship crumbles, and a period of horrific self-destruction begins.
Tender is such a heartbreaking book. Social media has given us the impression that things just fall into place for some people, and it can feel demoralizing when your real life isn’t post-worthy. I’m sure a lot of women will relate to Carolann’s struggle, and how exhausting it can be to constantly perform many different roles.
Hetland’s visceral images are incredible. Although there is a lot of body horror in here, I found the pictures of Carolann “rehearsing” for her social interactions the most terrifying.
For anyone who mistakenly thinks comics/graphic novels are for kids, I urge them to read this. Tender is relevant, relatable, moving, and important.
If you are able, please purchase Tender direct from the publisher.
Thank you Fantagraphics for the ARC.
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